Little Angels telling us how to live!

The real and deep hearted love is reflected in our interaction with little children under the age of the three years. The more we interact with them the more we feel happy and the more we love them. But again the children remain children for parents even they reach the age of sixty and become grand parents them selves.

We often ignore our kids best age which is early childhood cause of our commitments to the business and job in general and normally dont get enough time to spare to interact with them. But still no matter how stressed out we are, how busy we remained in the day or how difficult the day was for us, when we look at our children we forget every thing and become stress in the matter of few minutes by playing and chatting with them.

These little angels give us lessons to mend our life styles. Their interaction with other kids is based on true feelings of love and innocence and when they fight amongst each other, they have a valid reason for that. They believe in forgive n forget and are very good at socializing. Its us the elders who are non-accommodating, believe in nurturing grudges, think of taking revenge, plan to ruin each others life, less tolerant, mean and cruel in our day to day dealings. Our such routine is making our lives much more complicated and stressed out. These little angels give us a message every day through their innocent gestures that world can be a much better place to live if we learn to facilitate each other and also can learn the ways for a successful mutual co-existence. We read books, watch informative programs, visit different places in the world to enhance our knowledge and widen our IQ horizon but we rarely stop by and observe our kids playing and how they handle different situations.

The present day scenario is giving us a very gloomy picture of no hope, but the rays of hope are around us but our false egos dont allow us to stand under these rays. Kids believe in love, we believe in our goals. Kids are straight forward when it comes to dealing, we are rather hypocrites. Children are fun loving where as our joy is not fully focused. They are more innovative and we waste our time in leg pulling and other useless activities at the work place. Kids focus on the things of their interest and loose interest in the things which are supposed to be requiring the most attention. Kids offer loving gestures, smiles and few sweet words when they like something and we have forgot to appreciate and acknowledge each others efforts. Kids get inspired quickly and we think that we are the most perfect human beings and who need inspiration to be more precise. Children dont have any emotional, social or religious barriers to interact with each other and we tend to hide behind the walls of biased beliefs, hatred and cross culturalboundries.

We should learn to observe our kids and from them we should learn to spread love and care feelings for each other and should try our level best to make some time for our family from our busy life. It often happens that the only memory from the old days remains visible in family photo albums in which we are often not visible. It reminds us that we have not enjoyed the presence of beautiful children around us when they were there to bring cheers and laughter in our life. Above all this initial close interaction with children helps parents remain close to their kids through out their lives which enhances a true spirit of love, affection and respect.

Its time for us all to come out of a self made cover or a barrier between us and the true happiness, all we need to do is to look around us in our family and make the most of all happy moments that come our way by having blessed with children, then becoming lucky enough to see them growing and enjoying every part of their life. Kids are the best teachers if we try and think on these facts in a rather more open and understanding manner. This would help us in avoiding the so called stress and worries that we have created for us out of unknown reasons and at times the reasons are very obvious too!